Where To Enjoy High Tea in New Jersey with Kids

High Tea Locations in New Jersey and Holiday Tea and Cookies

If your little sweetie loves the finer things in life—and has the patience to make it through a sit-down meal—he or she may be ready to enjoy an afternoon at one of NJ's many local tea rooms. And, with International Tea Day coming up on December 15, now is the perfect time to try a new tradition!

From the fine china and finger sandwiches to the tempting sweets, your little one will be enchanted during this special one-on-one mommy time. Many host sweet birthday parties, and several offer special holiday events.

High tea typically includes several courses (such as soup, salad, scones, quiche, tea sandwiches, and dessert) served alongside your own pot of tea. Each course is usually pretty small, but the entire meal can be quite filling. It's generally a good idea to call ahead for reservations, as most tea houses are fairly small, and some have strict seating times and/or limited hours and days of operation. Another tip for newbies: don't pass up the clotted (or Devonshire) cream. This butter-like accompaniment to scones is heavenly when paired with homemade jam. 

Here are a few tea houses that may be fun to try with your little one:

The Cosy Cupboard – Convent Station
With specialty teas that change with the season, Cosy Cupboard is a lovely place to sit down and unwind. From homemade scones to freshly made tea sandwiches, there are plenty of goodies to keep you busy for a while. There’s also a small gift shop that tea aficionados will love.

Harmony Tea Room – Westwood
"Relax, reconnect, and rejuvenate" is the well-suited motto of   Harmony Tea Room, which serves 23 varieties of loose tea. The perfect option for young ladies sand gentlemen is Juvinili-tea service, with yummy scones, sandwiches, sweets, and drinks. Harmony also hosts Princess Dress-up Tea Parties for birthdays.

High SocieTea – Wayne
This tea house features more than 50 loose-leaf options, as well as tea education classes, cultural events, and private parties. Savor the traditional tea fare, including the delicious scones, quiche, and sweet breads, or choose the special package for young diners ages 10 and under. “Girls come in all dressed up, and [they] love the tea and treats. It’s all about the experience for them,” explains owner Barbara Healey. This Wayne location is listed with the Historical Society as the first official post office dating back to 1895. Special 2017 holiday events include a brunch, afternoon tea, and candlelight tea, all featuring Victorian carolers.

The Lillagaard Tea Room – Ocean Grove
When you’re down the shore, enjoy “tea by the sea” at the Lillagaard Bed & Breakfast. The elegant tea menu features tea sandwiches, scones, soups, salads, fruit, quiche, and much more, including a vast selection of teas. Young tea patrons will love the Teddy Bear Tea package, which includes teddy bear tea sandwiches, fruit, cookies, candy, juice, and a favor, served on Teddy Bear China.

The Merry Go Round & Calico Rose Cafe – Hamburg
This Victorian home and carriage house is a combo gift shop and cafe with a tea menu that's served daily from 11am – 4pm. (closed Mondays). The tea sampler includes a four-tier set-up with salad, tea sandwiches, scones/tea breads, cookies, and chocolate kisses. Children's tea parties are available with a four-tier assortment of veggie sticks, sandwiches, cookies, and cupcakes, plus tea pots filled with lemonade or peach tea.

Mulberry House offers a menu that's just right for kids. Photo courtesy of Mulberry House.

Mulberry House – Westfield
Mulberry House offers a farm-to-table dining experience, and the tea menu has a kid-friendly package that includes a scone, two finger sandwiches (including grilled cheese, PB&J, and Nutella), and a sweet. The tea menu is served Tuesdays through Fridays, 11am – 4 pm, and during brunch hours on weekends. Looking for a perfect tea party destination? Kids' special event options include Mommy and Me Tea, Alice in Wonderland tea party, birthday tea party, after-school tea party, and more. 

The New Leaf Tea Room & Gift Shoppe – Riverton
Put on your finest vintage hat (and if you don’t have one, feel free to borrow from the shop’s collection), and savor high tea at The New Leaf Tea Room & Gift Shoppe. Afternoon tea is served Wednesday through Saturday with packages that include finger sandwiches, scones, chocolate-covered strawberries, salads, and, of course, Royal Tea. Or coffee. Or hot chocolate. The 6-and-under crowd will cherish the Celebri-Tea package, with heart-shaped tea sandwiches, rosebud cupcakes, chocolate-dipped strawberries, and tea, lemonade, or cocoa. Host your child’s next birthday tea party in The Secret Tea Party Tea Room, where guests will dress-up and games, dine on delicious eats, and learn tea party etiquette.

One Steep at a Thyme – Jamesburg
This lovely two-room, 20-seat Victorian tearoom welcomes visitors for two afternoon tea seatings on Saturdays and Sundays only. The owners treat patrons to an amazing spread from start to finish, even including a palate-cleansing sorbet at the end of high tea. Tea tastings, Tarot readings, and sip-and-paint nights are offered regularly. Celebrate the holidays with a Dickens Christmas Tea on December 15 and 16.

ParteazEast Hanover
While not a teahouse per se, it's worth mentioning Parteaz, which offers creative tea parties for children. The third Friday of every month is a Mommy & Me High Tea with a princess event at which you and your little prince or princess can enjoy tea sandwiches, scones, desserts, and a special keepsake. There are also lots of private tea party options with themes like Dolls, Princess, Glam, and more.

The Picket Fence & Garden Cafe – Haddonfield
You'll feel like you're dining in a picturesque garden at this tea house, which offers a variety of tea packages. The children's tea service (ages 12 and under) includes three tea sandwiches, a cupcake, a decorated cookie, and your choice of a pot of tea, hot chocolate, or pink lemonade. Reservations are highly recommended. Get festive at a Candlelight Christmas Tea on December 15 and 22.

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Have a perfectly lovely get-together with your little one at Sally Lunn's Tea Room & Restaurant. Photo by ccynthialynn via Instagram.

Sally Lunn's Tea Room & Restaurant – Chester
With one of the area's most sizable tea selections from around the world, everyone's bound to find something they love here. As a complement to all these wonderful teas, Sally Lunn's tasty menu features fresh soup, sandwiches, "hot from the oven" delicacies, and desserts. Complete your visit to the 30-year-old shop with a stopover at the Victorian Parlor, which boasts an eclectic array of tea-related knick-knacks. 

A Sweet Memory Cake Shoppe – Forked River
This scrumptious bakery has a room for high tea. Get decked out in fancy boas, hats, and beads from the shop’s stash, and choose from an extensive menu of tea sandwiches, scones, and desserts. The packages include high tea, afternoon tea, and tea time, with discount prices for children. Throw an elegant tea party birthday celebration in a private room with costumes, glitter tattoos, food, and activities.

Ladies and gentlemen under 12 can choose the Princess or Prince option at Teaberry's Tea Room. Photo by thejenny0193 via Instagram.

Teaberry’s Tea Room – Flemington
Nestled inside a restored Victorian house, Teaberry’s Tea Room hosts lunch and afternoon tea Tuesdays through Sundays, including a Princess and Prince option for the ladies and gentlemen under 12. You can also throw a sophisticated high tea birthday party for young tea connoisseurs with themes such as American Girl, Pinkalicious, and Fancy Nancy. Many of Teaberry's visitors wear their fancy dresses. Management also accommodates the littlest guests—by providing high chairs for dolls. Older children might enjoy the Candlelit Victorian Merriment tea on December 15.

Top photo: High tea at the Teaberry includes scones with clotted cream and jam. Photo courtesy of Teaberry's Tea Room

Originally published 2012; updated December 2017.

Harmony Tea Room
11 Bergen St.
Phone: 201-664-2608
40° 59' 26.4228" N, 74° 1' 48.3744" W
High SocieTea
20 Old Newark Pompton Turnpike
07470 Wayne
Phone: 973-696-8327
40° 55' 28.8156" N, 74° 16' 12.4572" W
Teaberry's Tea Room
2 Main Street
Phone: 908-788-1010
40° 30' 46.4472" N, 74° 51' 31.7088" W
The New Leaf Tea Room & Gift Shoppe
606 Main Street
08077 Riverton , NJ
Phone: 856-786-0323
40° 0' 32.868" N, 75° 0' 40.2408" W
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The Lillagaard Tea Room
5 Abbott Avenue
07756 Ocean Grove , NJ
Phone: 732-988-1216
40° 12' 35.0892" N, 74° 0' 17.2728" W
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A Sweet Memory Cake Shoppe
721 South Main Street
08731 Forked River , NJ
Phone: 609-242-0153
39° 49' 24.564" N, 74° 12' 6.2784" W
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Sally Lunn's Tea Room & Restaurant
15 Perry Street
07930 Chester , NJ
Phone: 908-879-7731
40° 47' 2.6484" N, 74° 41' 47.8968" W
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Cosie Cupboard
4 Old Turnpike Rd.
07961 Morristown , NJ
Phone: 973 998-6676
40° 47' 9.9096" N, 74° 27' 9.6984" W
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Mulberry House
415 Westfield Ave.
07090 Westfield , NJ
Phone: 908-233-3562
40° 38' 53.1528" N, 74° 20' 55.8096" W
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One Steep at a Time
170 Gatzmer Ave.
08831 Jamesburg , NJ
Phone: 732-641-2570
40° 20' 55.3236" N, 74° 26' 21.4584" W
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Amelia's Teas & Holly
26 South Main St.
08062 Mullica Hill , NJ
Phone: 856-223-0404
39° 44' 1.1544" N, 75° 13' 28.4484" W
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#50 Route 10 West
07936 East Hanover , NJ
Phone: 973-447-0616
40° 48' 44.7804" N, 74° 23' 19.14" W
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The Merry Go Round & Calico Rose Cafe
19 Route 23
07419 Hamburg , NJ
Phone: 973-827-5578
41° 9' 17.9208" N, 74° 34' 37.6968" W
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The Picket Fence & Garden Tea Room
103 E. Kings Hwy.
08033 Haddonfield , NJ
Phone: 856-795- 5357
39° 53' 50.5644" N, 75° 2' 1.086" W
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