7 Places to Have Afternoon Tea with Long Island Kids

Delight your child with tea and sweets from the The Victorian Room at Barndoor 49.
Kid-Friendly Tea Rooms and Cafes in Long Island, New York

When the weather is cold, enjoying a warm cup of tea with your favorite little person is a wonderful way to spend an afternoon.

From sampling a variety of tea flavors to tasting yummy miniature sandwiches and scones, these Long Island tea rooms offer a warm welcome in an elegant setting just in time for Hot Tea Month in January.

For more delicious fun with your little ones, check out our list of the best Long Island brunch destinations for families, or treat yourself to our roundup of the Island's most decadent dessert spots


Have a spot of tea and a scone or two with your little one at Chat Noir. 

Chat Noir — Rockville Centre
Open for lunch every day from 9am to 5pm and dinner Wednesday through Sunday, Chat Noir offers an elegant setting and a cheeky menu. Patisserie offerings include freshly baked croissants and brioche, sweet and savory pies, delectable fruit tarts, and macaroons. But for heartier fare, you can also find sandwiches, fish and chips, shepherd's pie, and more. The prix-fixe tea includes finger sandwiches, pastries, scones, and a pot of tea. 

The Garden City Hotel — Garden City
Famed for its high tea, the Garden City Hotel might seem a tad high-end for your kids. But don't be fooled: This spot offers several different types of teas, including a chocolate tea and a royal tea. There are a host of unique tea options, including birthday tea, cherry blossom, and more. Afternoon tea is served Saturdays at 2pm. It can be pricey, but for a special occasion it can't be beat.

The Witches Brew — West Hempstead
This cafe is comfortable and relaxed. Enjoy its vast tea and coffee menu along with healthy food choices and spooky decor in a century-old house. Be advised, though: The cafe does not accommodate groups larger than 6 and does not take reservations or credit cards. Bring cash if you and your child want to sample its fare.


Hidden Oak Café at Bayard Cutting Arboretum — Great River
Step inside the glorious Manor House to find the Hidden Oak Cafe, which offers a menu of freshly prepared food, including sandwiches, quiches, soups, pies, and more. "Victorian Tea" comes complete with finger sandwiches, scones, a fresh pot, and catering, but must be booked 24 hours in advance. Winter hours (November-March) are 11am-3:30pm; summer hours (April-October) are 11am-4pm. The cafe is closed on Mondays.

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Along with traditional British high tea, Robinson's serves up baked desserts, including these colorful macaroons. 

Robinson’s Tea Room — Stony Brook
This cozy, antiques-filled tea room serves traditional British high tea (loose tea leaves with a diffuser), along with scones, finger sandwiches and light lunches. Freshly baked desserts, hot chocolate, and a selection of low-sugar desserts are also available. Children get their own teapot with every kids' meal. Reservations are recommended and can be made online. 

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After savoring tea and scones, browse the gift shop at The Secret Garden tea room. 

The Secret Garden — Port Jefferson
This spot is adorable and has a large menu. However, children must be 7 or older. Options include dessert tea, cream tea, snack tea, and, of course, a full afternoon tea. Reservations are recommended, and the cafe asks to be notified 24 hours in advance for dietary restrictions.

The Victorian Room at Barndoor 49— Bay Shore
Milk and Sugar cafe has rebranded itself as the farm-to-table restaurant Barndoor 49. However, its catering room remains the same. High tea brunches for special occasions are offered at The Victorian Room, located across the street from Barndoor 49. It offers specialty teas along with delicious pastries and desserts. It also does parties, so it's a great option for an Alice in Wonderland party or baby shower.

Photos courtesy of the restaurants/tea rooms

This article was originally published in December 2017.  It was updated by writer Gina Massaro in December 2018. 

The Witches Brew
311 Hempstead Tpke.
West Hempstead , NY
Phone: 516-489-9482
40° 42' 17.244" N, 73° 39' 2.0088" W
New York
Chat Noir
230 Merrick Rd.
Rockville Centre , NY
Phone: 516-208-8521
40° 39' 22.41" N, 73° 38' 51.0396" W
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The Victorian Room
46 West Main Street
11706 Bay Shore , NY
Phone: 631-969-3655
40° 43' 14.3364" N, 73° 14' 55.356" W
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Hidden Oak Café at the Bayard Cutting Arboretum
440 Montauk Highway
Great River , NY
Phone: 631-277-3895
40° 44' 21.0624" N, 73° 9' 46.2888" W
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The Secret Garden
225 Main Street
Port Jefferson , NY
Phone: 631-476-8327
40° 56' 43.6236" N, 73° 4' 4.332" W
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Robinson’s Tea Room
97 Main Street
Stony Brook , NY
Phone: 631-751-1232
40° 55' 2.118" N, 73° 8' 45.3048" W
New York