When you think about going on a fun family outing, hitting a cemetery probably isn't at the top of your destination list (unless your last name happens to be Addams). But perhaps it's time you reconsidered. New York City is home to many historic and surprisingly beautiful cemeteries that are open to the public and enjoyable to explore, especially as the fall leaves are changing. Some also come alive through tours and special events that take place throughout the year.

My family and I attended an awesome concert and picnic at Brooklyn's Green-Wood Cemetery this past spring and had a blast walking through the gorgeous grounds. So now that my kids' favorite holiday, Halloween, is nigh, I decided to find out what was happening at five New York City burial sites to help get you into the spooky seasonal spirit.

With Halloween just two weeks away you can count on all things pumpkin in the Garden State this weekend – check out the 10th Annual South Jersey Pumpkin Show or Four Sisters Winery Fall Harvest Weekends. But for something a little more low-key, you can sign up for a Low Tide Beach Walk at Liberty State Park or see a neon-filled performance of The Very Hungry Caterpillar. And remember, you can find a full list of weekend activities in our Event Calendar.

Apparently, eight years old is the age where Halloween really begins to matter.  In previous years, we settled for a rushed trip to the department store costume department and grabbed whatever fit from the disheveled, picked over displays.  Decorations were minimal and the pumpkin never saw a knife.  It did, however, see the outside of my front door for long, long after it was considered "fresh".  This year?  Not so much.  My kids are ON the BALL.  My children chose their costume choices (an obscure Minecraft character and a soccer fairy) in early September, and are expecting the full decoration treatment.  They've even begun decorating their rooms.  So, I'm guessing they're also anticipating the entire Halloween/Fall experience, which for me, includes a trip to the pumpkin patch, and lucky for us, (and you!) we've got lots of options to choose from in Eastern Connecticut!

Update: As of April 2014 the New York State Education Department has decided to cancel its contract with inBloom. It was a hard-won fight!

There's a story I've been following for a while now about the controversy surrounding a company called inBloom. Backed by the likes of the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, inBloom stores student data in an online cloud, including grades, test scores, teacher observations about behavior, and even more sensitive information like special education status, family history and disciplinary records. The supposed goal is to help teachers and schools easily track each student's progress, provide more personalized instruction and inspire digital developers to create new and innovative educational tools. However, many parents and education activists across the country are concerned that inBloom violates students' privacy in a big way and that the data may end up being compromised or sold to the highest bidder.

While inBloom is a national venture, as of now only three states plan to use its services, including New York State. It's important to note that out of the original nine states who were interested in inBloom, six have pulled out due to privacy concerns. According to an article in last week's New York Times, the New York State Education Department has already uploaded data for 90% of its charter and public school students, and there is no way for individual districts, schools or families to opt out. But there are things parents can do to voice their concerns and possibly stave off or at least change the scope of inBloom.

Fall brings pumpkins, hay rides, corn mazes, spooky fun, concerts, and festivals. But what really piques my interest is a different fall tradition (nerd alert!): The opening of new museum exhibits. I get excited just reading about the investigation of how humans change over time at the Museum of Science, going beyond human at the Peabody Essex Museum, the meditation on a single color at the MFA, stretching the definitions of art at the ICA, and redefining the topography of the deCordova Sculpture Park. All that, and some STEAM (that's Science, Technology, Engineering, Art and Math) at the Boston Cyberarts Gallery and MIT Museum. Even if you don’t find it quite as exciting as I do, take a look – there’s something new for every family this Fall in Boston’s galleries. 

October, with Columbus Day Weekend and Halloween, is a classic time for East Coast families to get out and enjoy the changing colors. Deals are plentiful in favorite fall getaway locations like Vermont, Saratoga, Hershey PA, Maryland’s Eastern Shore, Plymouth and Boston MA and Philadelphia. Farther afield, the Rocky Mountains of Colorado and the beaches of Hawaii beckon with bargains.  If you are craving Caribbean paradise, try your luck by entering a Facebook contest to win a vacation for four to Paradise Island, Bahamas.  Here are some great deals for fall family vacations.